About You

You’ve Lived By Their Rules All Your Life,
Now It’s Time To Set Your Own!

All your life you’ve lived by the rules and guidelines of those around you.  Your spouse, your boss, your friends, and society in general.

Go to school, go to college, get a job, get married, raise a family…

It’s been done millions of times, over and over again, and you, as a good rule-follower, have dutifully obliged this ritual.  And while you’ve been relatively happy, while this life has served you pretty well up until now, there’s still something missing.

And this something that’s missing is growing in size.  It’s no longer just a pang in the pit of your stomach.  It’s grown into a full-blown longing, a passionate desire for something better, something sweeter.  And the time to go after it has come.

Now it’s time to set your own rules, to live life your way, on your terms.  It’s time to think about YOU for a change!

So let’s take a look at how we can
make that possible.

We’ll meet on the phone and occasionally in person (if you like and if you live in the San Diego area), and we’ll address whatever is important to you right now.  This could be finding out who you authentically are and why you’re on the planet.  It could also be addressing body issues, career issues, financial issues, relationship issues—you get the idea.

Once we get our arms around what’s going on in your life that needs attention and improvement, we embark upon a course of action to bring that improvement about.

In a nutshell, we do this by:

  • Identifying patterns that are keeping you from doing, having, and being, what you want.
  • Distinguishing structures that are keeping those patterns in place.
  • Co-creating new patterns and structures that are in alignment with what you want.
  • Practicing and using those new patterns and structures consistently and reliably.

As Zig Ziglar once said, “Personal improvement is like bathing, you need to do it every day.”  Ideally, this is how I like to work with my clients: We coach on a weekly basis, and during the off days you put into practice what we’ve covered in our previous session.

And then one morning you rise and look around, take a deep breath and realize, “Wow, I think there’s a breakthrough going on here!”

I deal in Breakthroughs, in helping you uncover Your True Self.

Notice I said uncover it.  You see, it’s already inside of you.  You already possess it!  The key is to reveal it, like the inner petals of a rose, so it will blossom to its fullest beautiful potential.

All this time your inner authentic self has been hiding, lying dormant.  When the unfurling begins there will be no stopping it.

And the end result is nothing short of magnificent.

You’ll feel freer than you’ve ever felt, like someone who has awakened from a long, restful sleep.  Revitalized, refreshed, and ready to start life anew.

Now at this point you may be wondering, “Why do I need a coach to do this?  Can’t I do my own self-discovery and unfurling?”  And my answer would be: Yes, you can.  You have always had the power to do this.  In fact, that’s why the bookstore has an entire self-help section dedicated to those who want to “try this at home.”

Unfortunately, the ones who do this engage more in “shelf help” than self help, with shelves of all kinds of wonderful books on all kinds of topics.  You read the book, you put the book down, you go on with the status quo.  Then a few months later you go and get another book.

Coaching—my coaching—is entirely different.  Like night and day, in fact.

Here we deal with results.  Accountability.  Breakthroughs.  It’s my job to coach you through your setbacks and challenges and to keep you on course to your desired results.

This is how I work.  If it sounds like something you are prepared for, if the fire inside of you is strong enough to be unleashed—if now is the time for you to experience greater things in this one and only life of yours, then let’s talk.  Click here to contact me.